Hello men, let’s talk about things you should Never say to a lady. I hope you know ladies are sensitive to words, especially rude words directed to them. Some ladies can get so furious that they act irrationally after hearing a word or phrase they find derogatory.
Sometimes, you may not intend to get them upset with your comments, but funny enough they turn out to take it personally. Therefore, you need to be mindful of the words you use on a lady.
I will share with you some common phrases, never say to a lady if you want to avoid her wrath. Some of them include:
1. “You remind me of my mum,”
Hell no! You may intend to describe her to be as beautiful as your mum, but some ladies would find this offensive and won’t take it lightly. They may see it from the age perspective and think you are trying to say they look like your 50-year-old mum. Try to avoid using such a phrase if you don’t want to be embarrassed, especially in a public place.
2. “You have a pretty face,”
Think about it; just her face? That’s not nice at all. I mean it sounds embarrassing to even when you don’t have such an intention. She might think other parts of her body are not attractive, and this can affect her self-esteem. Besides, this can cause a lady to hate you like the devil.
3. “Are you wearing that?
You already know ladies spend eternity dressing up, so why ask such a question? She could get this twisted and feel her dress is terrible. Some ladies might even think you do not appreciate them and the way they look. It might offend them and also decide not to go out with you again.
4. “Your sister is so hot,”
That’s an endearing way to tell her she got screwed in her gene pool. She might say ‘’thank you’’ to be polite but trust me, she never meant that. Besides, the word ‘’hot’’ may sound like you are lusting after her sister. This is usually the beginning of insecurity, especially when ‘she’s your fiancée. Never use that phrase!
5. “Are you on your period?”
A friend of mine once narrated how he got slapped like a criminal when he first asked a lady if ‘she’s on her period. ‘It’s funny. I guess ‘it’s stupid too because it can be embarrassing. A lady might assume you are judging her mood or weird behavior by your crazy guess ‘she’s on her period. Do you get it? Never ask a lady such a question. I mean, if you ‘don’t want her to get her angry.
6. “Your hair looks way better,”
Are you saying her hair used to be very scary? That’s the impression you would create in her mind. Never use this word, no matter how beautiful you think her new look is. ‘Don’t use the word ‘’better’’; you can use the word ‘’beautiful’’ instead.
7. “‘You’re still hungry?”
This question sounds so rude and could make a lady feel you are calling her a glutton. ‘ C’ mon, fine, you paid the bill, but that doesn’t warrant an insult. It may be an innocent question from you, but it can piss a lady off.
8. “‘Didn’t you wear that last week?”
Don’t make a lady feel like her wardrobe is empty. This question could insinuate that and ‘it’s rude to ask a lady that. She might even embarrass you if you are her fiancé and respond with comments like “what are you doing about it?” or “‘aren’t you ashamed your girl is short of dresses?” Never say I mean Never!
9. “You ask a lot of questions,”
Girls are naturally talks and can be inquisitive, and they like to chat with friends and loved ones. Don’t make them feel you are tired of their questions. It can get them angry, especially if you guys are dating. I mean they could perceive it as not being interested in communicating with her. Some ladies can pick up a quarrel from this and decide not to talk to you again.
10. “I ‘don’t trust your cooking,”
That’s a big one. It can break all hell loose and make ladies decide never to attempt cooking for you again. I mean, if you don’t trust her cooking why don’t you have a taste before doubting her? Although some ladies will see it as a challenge to prove their cooking skills to you, some would rather see it as an insult and never forgive you for such a statement.
11. “How much do you weigh?”
A lady can get this question twisted, especially when ‘she’s on the larger size. She might get angry and defensive. You may not like her rude response, so it is better you save the question. I asked a girl this question, and she replied saying “as heavy as your ‘mum’s head” Oops! That was tough. Yea, she said because the question got to her on the wrong side even thou meant no harm.
12. “You are crazy,”
Girls hate this statement, and they can show you their crazy side. They might get so angry and never forgive you for that. So, no matter what a lady does to you, never use the word ‘’crazy’’ on her.
13. “Calm down,”
Some guys say this when they are trying to explain a reason for doing something wrong. The truth is this will only make a girl angrier with such a phrase. Why ‘don’t you talk? ‘She’ll become calm when she hears the truth. She might even apologize for yelling when she finds out she was wrong all along.
In conclusion, always remember that ladies take everything seriously, especially the words you say to them. Be smart with words and avoid using the above-listed phrases. Sometimes, it’s better to stay quiet and watch them than to use the wrong words. But if you say anything to them, make sure it makes them happy unless the situation is difficult and warrants otherwise.